Greetings, wedding enthusiasts! If you’ve been bestowed with the honor of delivering a wedding speech or toast, congratulations are in order! However, let’s admit it, the thought can be dauting. But fear not!  As a seasoned wedding planner affectionately known as “Smiley”, “I’ve witnessed countless speeches, and I’m here to guide you through the dos and don’ts of this cherished tradition.

Dos:

1. Speak from the Heart: When you rise to speak, let your authenticity shine. The couple chose you for a reason, so let your words reflect the genuine love and joy you feel for them.
2. Highlight the Couple: This is their moment, so focus on them. Share personal anecdotes and memories that showcase your unique connection with the lovebirds.
3. Weave a Narrative: Craft a compelling story that celebrates the magic of their relationship. Share pivotal moments that affirm their love story and leave a lasting impression on the audience.
4. Keep it Concise: In an era of short attention spans, brevity is key. Aim to keep your speech under five minutes to maintain audience engagement and momentum.
5. Prepare, Prepare, Prepare: Practice makes perfect, so don’t leave your speech to chance. Write it out, rehearse it, and refine it until it resonates with sincerity and warmth.
6. Raise a Toast: End your speech on a high note by raising your glass and proposing a heartfelt toast to the newlyweds, sealing your words with a sip of celebration.

Don’ts:

1. Steer Clear of Cliches: While humor is appreciated, avoid resorting to cheesy quotes that detract from the genuine sentiment of your message. Keep it authentic and heartfelt.
2. Mind Your Language: Respect the sanctity of the occasion by refraining from using profanity or inappropriate language. Choose words that honor the significance of the day.
3. Avoid Wingin’ It: Memorization can backfire, especially amidst the whirlwind of emotions at a wedding. Don’t risk stumbling over your words or forgetting your message – come prepared with notes.
4. Know Your Limits: While it’s tempting to calm pre-speech jitters with a drink or two, moderation is key. A tipsy toast may seem fun in the moment, but it can detract from the sincerity of your message.

As you take the stage, remember that the couple handpicked you for this special role. Embrace the opportunity to share in their joy and celebrate their love. With these toast tips in hand, you’re well-equipped to deliver a speech that’s as memorable as the bond shared by the newlyweds. For more helpful hints for your big day, check out my other blogs. Here’s to love, laughter, and happily ever after’s! Cheers!